4/24/09

nice?

just a nice guy.

Nice guy’s finish last.

Well that’s how the saying goes right?

Unfortunately that’s a saying that I believe is completely true.

Lets apply this to social life:

Who is more remembered?

A. The guy who helped a person up off the floor.
or
B. The guy who punched the person who is now on the floor.

Now think hard, and answer this HONESTLY.


Being a nice guy doesn’t help at all while looking for a relationship either.
Being TOO nice lands you in the “Friend trap.” While you are stuck in this trap, the “Bad” guy comes in and scoops up what you could’ve had.

So you are stuck in this position. What do you do?

You can either stick by her and hope that maybe one day she’ll realize that you we’re the one for her. Or you can just move on and forget about her.

But of course being the “Nice guy,” you don’t want to desert her. So you stick by her. The bad thing about this choice you have to hear her talk about her boyfriend. Yeah, the “Bad Guy.”
No matter what though, you have to stick through it and just listen. Cause that’s what “Nice Guys” do right? Because deep down you still think that you have a chance with her.

In the end, you just get walked all over on. The door mat. The person who can’t say no to anything. Putting others before yourself.

This was my story.

Things are different now

But I am still the “Nice guy”

I still believe a guy can find that one girl without having to put up front.
Without lying.
Without being a jerk.

Just being YOURSELF.

I will say exactly what I feel and what I think about you.
I am just looking for a girl who can return the favor.

I’m just sick of finishing last.

(does any of this shit even make sense. -.-)

1 comment:

  1. i couldn't have put it any better myself. 100% true.

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